What is Pragmatic Language?
Pragmatic language is the ability to efficiently use words/language and body actions when being social. One uses these skills to engage in a reciprocal interaction with one or more communication partners at the same time recognizing and following socially expected rules.
According to the American Speech-Language-Hearing Association (ASHA), Pragmatics involves three major communication skills:
Using language to comment, for different intentions, for example:
Greeting (“hello”, “goodbye”)
Informing (“I’m going to get a cookie.”)
Demanding (“Give me a cookie.”)
Promising (“I’m going to get you a cookie.”)
Requesting (“I would like a cookie, please.”)
Changing language according to the needs of a listener or situation, for example:
Talking differently to a baby than to an adult
Giving background information to an unfamiliar listener in regards to the topic at hand
Speaking differently in a classroom than on a playground (Inside voice vs. Outside voice)
Following rules for conversations and storytelling, for example:
Taking turns in conversation
Introducing topics of conversation
Staying on topic
Rephrasing/changing the message when misunderstood
Use verbal and nonverbal signals (head nod to show understanding)
How close to stand to someone when speaking (personal space/boundaries)
How to use facial expressions and eye contact
How can I tell if my child is having problems with pragmatic language?
Making inappropriate or unrelated comments during conversations.
Telling stories in a disorganized way
Has little variety in language use
Does not provide the expected personal space when with others
Little to no awareness of boundaries
Does not provide appropriate eye contact
Does not appear to understand non-literal language
Is not aware of tone of voice or vocal volume
Cannot change his or her speech and language for different communication partners/settings